So for those who don’t know me, I’m an extremely logical person. I feel things, obviously, and I’m very passionate about life and my opinions…but no matter how I may feel about things, my mind is extremely stubborn. My feelings need to have some rational explanation and if they don’t, well it’s pretty frustrating. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
So, I have always believed myself to be someone who doesn’t really care about people because I thought that I loved conditionally. If you love conditionally, then you almost love rationally, there would be reasons why you love someone, it would make sense. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
But I realized that, like my family always tells me, you can’t rationalize love, it just is. I HATE THAT! Honestly, think about it for a second, no matter what you do, no matter what you say, you could even change your entire personality tomorrow and there will be people who will still love you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
That makes no sense to me. I am a person who intentionally lives to try to be the best version of herself. If I suddenly decided to make crappy decisions, and if I suddenly decided that I was going to be a victim and live passively instead of actively, I find it hard to believe that I would still be loved. It’s an interesting concept to think about and despite all my weird rationalizations, it’s true: love isn’t and never will be rational. It’s souls who connect, it’s deeper than anything we can understand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Oh, and to all of you out there who have a hard time believing in unconditional love, well, don’t worry, I strongly believe that if we keep striving to find answers, time and experience will teach us the truth of things. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Anyway, we aren’t loved for every little thing we do, we are loved for who we are. There is nothing we can say or do that can change that fact. As much as a lot of us may love control, well, here’s some bad news: we can’t control this. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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